Tuesday, 20 February 2018

Cambodia


In 2014 I bought a one way promo ticket Jakarta – Phnom Penh and the departure will be in 2015. I was not thinking twice to buy.  In the same year,  I was working at a bank, as a new employee I had no off day for 1st year. The moment when i had to decided :
    1. Throw the ticket, i must realistic, i have to work to get money, and forget the trip.
    2. Resign and go to Cambodia (YOLO) but back to Jakarta with no job and dont know until when.
And suddenly i told my friend  “I will not go, have a safe trip”  But actually i want to go, and follow my mind :
⇨ get a new job ASAP ⇨resign from the bank ⇨ going the trip ⇨ back to Jakarta ⇨ working at the new office

(In Short) A few month before went to Cambodia, I was searching for a job, I got a new job when I arrived. Now I will share places I visited there, let get start from :

1. Phnom Penh :


buy a sim card when arrived


strolling arround Phnom Penh by tuk tuk

National Monument

Russian Market


Cambodian Dessert at Russian Market 

Central Market
gaya dulu ah
 
Wat Phnom

Central Market


Cambodia Ice dessert (pake kacang2an di mix sama rumput laut, aneh tapi seger)

Tuol Slang Genocide Museum
Tuole Slang Genocide Museum


 
 
 2.       Battambang :
 
Mirror Selfie at Mrs. Bun Roeung's Ancient House

Nori Train
3. Siem Reap :


Angkor Wat
 

Angkor Wat

Friday, 22 September 2017

5 common sucks opinion about wedding party :


1.      Expensive
“wedding party will spend much money. It starts from engagement day, venue, catering, wedding decoration, bridal gown,  prewedding photo, Make Up Artist, Invotation Card, Entertainment, photobooth, Bridesmaid, Bridal shower, et cetra”

2.      Diet, treatment packages and another program before wedding day
“are you taking a full wedding packages treatment for bride to be in spa?” “you must do diet! To make you look gorgeous” “dont forget to put ice cube on your face, to get have a good make up result”

3.      Preparation going made you stress
“beware, but its ussualy happen to others too, worrying everything and  thinking how if wouldnt be happen as you wish”

4.      In some case the wedding party was canceled
“he still can not forget his ex”  “you should follow what family plan” “are you really sure will marry her?”

5.      Its a well prepared, so a year before is a must
 
“are you kidding in me? It is already 2 months to go!!” “1 year before is enough to get well prepared wedding”
 
 

 
Thats all opinion will lead everbody (bride to be or groom to be) will run into that condition. Thats should not be happen in everybody because the important part of wedding party is parents Blessing.
 
Plan your wedding party according your ability, believe your parents blessing your great plan, praying to God and thingking God will always help you to make your great dream happen smoothly.
 
Oke well guys, i hope my thoughts will help you to stay you away from that 5 sucks opinion, dont let them suggest you. Its just opinion, let people have it but we have not. Make it simple J
 











regards,
deyyffsactsz



 

Thursday, 8 December 2016

my opinion before and after do volunteering

At the last semester of lectures in university, university students in Indonesia usually ought to do volunteering or internship. Beside it is one of the passed requirements which must done before the students starting to make the final assignment, the purpose of volunteering or internship by university student is to get have a volunteering or internship experience before graduate. Certainly, volunteering or internship program will be counted in credits semester.
There are some universities in Indonesia which not implement the internship for the students, they change the program volunteering in rural area or village or isolated location which far from town during 1-3 months. Volunteering is a social program which conducted by knowledge university student. The program usually are educate people by making seminars, teach in elementary school, donate public facilities by build or renovate public facilities such as mosque, public toilet, and others infrastructure at the volunteering location. After finish the volunteering, the group of university students must make a report. Volunteering report have to do by the group of volunteer, not like internship report that have to do by individual.
When i was being a university student, my faculty encourage the students to do volunteering. At that moment i was wondering “ why they are not encourage the student to do internship in law firm or public notary or company? There is no benefit for me to get my dream job by do volunteering ”, because i want to do get internship experience at multinational company. Then, i asked my friends who have same opinion about volunteering and we sharing the advantages and disadvantages by do volunteering. After that, i know from them that many of our seniors in faculty also not agree with volunteering. We asked all of student in our major to make meeting with the lectures, we discussed with  the lectures to change the requirement, we were hope volunteering become the internship, that should be do in company/law firm/public notary, so that after graduate from university we are ready for work and already have a worth experience. The lecture have a difference opinion why they choose volunteering as the requirement before making final assignment. The existing requirement will not be change and must be do by the university students.
Me and my friends could not bargain, like or dislike, must do volunteering step by step. It started from making a group with student from others faculties, choosing the volunteering location, survey the location, making programs, until requesting the sponsorship funding. One month left, programs and events done, the volunteering reports collected and the score was so great. What a great experience, until now i can remember how the laziness, the spirit, the conflict, the survive, the filthy, the tolerant, the exciting feel when twenty university students living in one house in one month. Twenty characters should adaptation for each other, to finish the programs in village,far from town, minim lighting, limited availability of water and we had to wash at river, and lived far far far from market.
Since all had been done, and since  i graduated  from university i want to make this essay, because i want to change what i am thinking about volunteering that there is no benefit after i graduated, because i am realize now that i used to wrong. In my opinion, there are 3 things that change my opinion about volunteering after do volunteering, the things are :
FIRST, it is challenge young people to make program which useful for the rural region and left behind with another region in Indonesia. there is no special class  or training for university students  to conducted the volunteering programs. University students have to search the step by step, programs, and  how the process of volunteering  by themselves.  We search the information about the volunteering by asking to the senior who already done do volunteering, borrow the documents for knowing the program and sample of proposal program for funding sponsorship, survey and analyzing the location, make the program suitable with the problems in the location based on survey result. We share tasks with another member to make budget, make the organization structure and pic each programs. Not only that, we also requesting the sponsorship together to some ministries, companies, and donors who willing to give funding. The beginning prepare, implementation, until the all programs done is the precious experience. We got many lesson and knowledge which not necessarily we got from internship in company.
Second, volunteering in rural area/ isolate location which conducted by university students, will give many advantages for the people in rural location. It is because All programs involving the people there. for example, the programs like meeting with the people thru the seminar, after that the participant will be become know about about the issue/topic at that seminar. Besides that there are social program, such as build public facility. There are routine programs for one month too, like cleaning the area together with people, helping people to renovate the street, participating in tradition event, give free course after school to kindergarten and elementary student. That all will give people many  positive advantages in location as the purpose of volunteering.
Last, one thing that can make me feel relief is i ever do volunteering. For me, how success are the people, if they are never have do something for society, their life is useless. Volunteering is just one of good thing to give in life, but its different when you plan, arrange and start from zero until finish all well.
So, those are three things that can change my opinion about volunteering, and it is should be experienced to every person in their life. Volunteering can give life lesson and make our life be worth. However, its not mean that volunteering is enough to do once in life, for the next time hopefully the alumnus can do volunteering again, it may be by living in social life or join to philanthropist organization.

by : Defi Satiatika



Pieces of the volunteering memory :
kegiatan seminar kesehatan dengan pembicara ahli


proses pembangunan MCK tahap awal

berfoto di salah satu situs adat 

pembangunan MCK umum

membantu pengaspalan jalan

kegiatan rutin kerja bakti memersihkan selokan

berpartisipasi dalam kegiatan rutin adat

mencuci baju bersama disungai :P



Upacara Menumbuk Padi Bersama


Kegiatan di TK Kampung Urug, Jawa Barat




Wednesday, 25 May 2016

CHICKENPOX

my friend got chickenpox :

About two weeks ago, a friend at my new office got a chickenpox virus caught from his daughter. Before he suffered, he got duty out of town. He went to Kalimantan and visited some mine coal sites by airplane to airplane and also trough the land by bus. After he arrived at Jakarta, his condition dropped and got chickenpox afterward.
He went to a doctor and the result was positively suffered. All employee at my office, asked him to stayed at home and did not go to office until completely recover.

For me, this month ( May 2016) just like peak season at my office. There were many auditing from Bank and many tasks in each division must be done before Ramadhan.Then, my friend who suffered went to office for urgently duty when in recovery. Goddamn, we all at office felt a bit panic. (too much expressing :P) We hope our immune system always good and can endure the virus. 

We remembered each other to keep condition, a friend said chickenpox virus comes only once, to most people who have had  chickenpox will not get it again because the are immune to it for life. (but i dont really know, just heard and didnt deeply ask how the causes and process :D)
In the other hand . another said chickenpox can came twice but rare, its can be develop by reactivated virus after decades later when the immun system weaken. (felt scary)


it is happening :

When i was in my pra menstruation period, i got headache, fever, sore body and that day i felt so this was unusual pra menstruation syndrome. Unlucky terribly, that day i had to finished the task so i worked overtime and caught the rain until arrived at home.The day after, when at office I felt extremely exhausted after stood up and filled the documents to the cabinet. I was feeling ill and a bit fever, but i forced my self to finish my task. When I had done my task, i saw my watch and saw what time was it. then... accidentally I Found A Blister at My Left Arm Skin. I asked my friend an my fried said "Chickenpox!"


at the clinic :

After arrived at home, I went to a doctor. The doctor said "You suffered and it is contagious, take a rest for 7 days, isolate yourself from others". then i got some pills and powder to recover my chickenpox. and off  course off to work for 1 week. I am feel a bit happy at home, i can sleep all day, but since last night i am afraid see my face in the mirror. 



pictures :



these are the chickenpox at my torso, neck, arm, and actually they also appear at my throat and gums but i can not capture them.
















thank you the anonymous reader. Sorry for the bad structure sentences and grammar. Keep your body healthy and fit during this seasonal changes. :D  



by : Defi Satiatika     

Monday, 6 April 2015

Curug Seribu

One of passed requirement from my university is volunteering for 1 month. We ( a group of students from many faculties) must  make a project to construct social welfare, education, facilities, and society especially in rural area in Bogor, West Java. 
In the middle of our duty as volunteer... we had an opportunity to refresh from all of responsibility. We visited Curug Seribu (Water Fall), the nearest tourist attraction from our home stay, Curug Seribu is located at Gunung Halimun Salak National Park, Pamijahan, Bogor, Indonesia.
From the gate entrance it took 1 hour to Curug, by tracking. We enjoyed the track, the fresh air, the natural view that rarely find in city hehe. 


entrance
Baby Curug :D

the track

tracking

Spring Water :D

Relax

finally


Big Curug Seribu